I remember an incident that was differently hilarious and a revelation because it made me think much. “It was during my high school days, when one of my friends saw a cute child and told him” Hey your dress is beautiful, you look cute! “For which the child responded in a very severe and sarcastic tone” I know. I do not ask you! I made?”

After having learned that my friend was shocked and I roared with laughter, amused shortly after having witnessed such a very different conversation for the first time in my life. But later I asked myself, “how a little kid like that conversation? ” A normal, innocent and polite child would say “oh thank you!” with a big happy smile. Later, I saw many children lack some of the most important values. In fact I did not understand what is happening in the world today! Where all the innocence, politeness, manners, etc. has, went among the children of this generation?

There is an adage in the Indian language of the South, “One who is not planted and grown to the age of 5, is never possible at 50.” A quality that is not instilled in a child at a very young age can not be expected to arise all of a sudden, after the child grows! It is almost the same as the saying “as you sow, so shall reap you.”

Have you seen people who are so refined, the most respected and welcomed in society? How do you think they are like that? It is a magic that turned them in these beautiful men and noble women in one night? Of course not! Everything is in the way they were brought up. These wonderful qualities were instilled in them when they were really very young, even without their own knowledge.

We see some brats, pampered, extremely polite and well behaved children and various other types of children all around us show the behavior and very different characters. All this can be changed; fed and raised when they are young enough that ultimately determines their quality of life and their status in society in their future.

Here are 10 top values that should be instilled in children from a very young age in order to transform them into beautiful men and women in their future.

Forget and forgive

The compliance

Punctuality

Honesty

Humility

The ability to accept mistakes and defeat

The cleanliness and self-discipline

Share and care

Friendship

Content and adapt

10. Content and adapt

How many people is really happy with what they have? When you buy a new phone of your hard-earned money to say, $10 000 and then you see your colleague with a phone for $15 000 and feel discouraged. Why? This is because you are not happy with what you have. This contentment may be instilled in children when they are young. They can be taught to remain happy with this little toy that has colored on them during these dear controlled remote lights. Children do not know to differentiate from things cost or technology. All they know is pleasure and happiness. They can’t compare things until they make alumni. It is the elders who spoil the kid with the idea of dissatisfaction. Adapt to any situation is also important for the survival of man. A man must be able to survive in a bungalow, as well as in a hut. You need to know to adapt to the society and people. It depends on the attitude that is planted in that mind at an early age.

9. Share and care

The world is bound by love and care. When you see a woman on the bus, standing, you automatically get up and offer to your place. How did you know that? You were taught when you were little. Is it not? She is a stranger, but you take care of it, and that makes you happy, no? If you have never done so, try once. Your legs may be bad, but at the end of the day, you will feel much. Every being alive is selfish in a way or another for reasons of survival. But there is always a little space for some unconditional love, which is perennial in children. To take care of others and to share what we have, is an extension of that love. In fact we all know that sharing is caring and joy shared is joy doubled while the shared pain are reduced by half. It provides relief and the sense of satisfaction in life and every child deserves. Don’t they?

8. Friendship

Today, we see a lot of solitary. They know not to mingle with people and be friendly. They are always neglected by society. Children are still born with charm, a smile that can make 1 million friends, eyes that glisten with a lot of positive energy. Man is a social animal because it can make friends and socialize with fellow humans. Who would want to see a child to grow up alone? Children have the magic around them which can even melt a heart in iron. He just needs to be maintained, no? They should learn to be friendly with everyone and to treat everyone with a warm heart, otherwise they will never be.

7. The cleanliness and self-discipline

Some children are always shabby and unhealthy because they do not know how to stay clean! He must teach the children to stay clean and maintain cleanliness around them. They must learn how to keep things in order and keep. Hygiene plays a vital role in the health of the child. Most health issues and the spread of various infections are generally observed in children due to lack of hygiene. Children are cuter when they are clean and tidy, right? Seniors may not always stick around and check the environment. In fact the children are smarter than the adults once they are taught what and how to do things! Self-discipline is also very important. Those who are missing, growing really clumsy beings humans.

6. The ability to accept mistakes and defeat

How many people can come boldly and say, “Yes, this is my fault, regrets” or “well, I lost this time, congratulations.” I’ll do better next time “from the bottom of their hearts and positively consider?” Most people cannot work. It is natural that their ego will not allow doing so. Nowadays, even 3 years old children are hesitant to apologize. They feel crumpled and shame! They may not take defeat as a springboard for success. Instead they curl up in their shells. Need to teach children to take the victory and defeat all also with a broad mind. If they win, they should learn to be regarded as a reward for their hard work. If they lose, they should tell them to take it as a challenge. After all, no winner was born; they are just normal human beings humans created by pure hard work and positive attitude.

5. Humility

We often see of Brats. The arrogant people who are so proud of their talents, wealth, glory, it is not! People stick around them as flies around sweets just because they have something that they need from these kids. They speak of the kind and gentle words at the front and the curse completely in their minds! Nobody likes arrogance. Humility is quite rare nowadays. A person should be thankful for all the wonderful qualities. A child with too much pride ends up being a narcissistic prince / Princess, beloved by none. Humility, modesty should be planted when the person is young, otherwise it will be too late to learn.

4. Honesty

It is the most important quality, and in fact my most favorite lesson I learned when I was 5 years old. I was a very cool liar and I did not know that it was wrong, until my older sister took the blame for an error that it did not and got scolded. I escaped to be punished, but the tears from his eyes moved me. I was taken by guilt. My conscience stung me. She could tell that this was not his mistake, but she didn’t. She protected his sister of liar. And guess what? Since that day, I became the most honest person they never saw and I maintained the same till now. I will for the rest of my life. He made my life simple and easy. Man can live a life free of guilt, if he is honest. There is nothing to hide; he has nothing to be ashamed. It would be the truth simply. It makes it all worth it. Is it not? Now, you do not think that a lesson learned and very young egoic qualities leave a great brand in mind?

3. Punctuality

We live in the world where the time is given premium more than money. Every minute is precious. I have a friend who seems to be the most reliable. Do you know why? It is because of its meaning ultimate time. If I ask him to come at 8:30, he will be there at exactly 08:28. Not even once has it ever been late in our 7 years of friendship. Punctuality is a symbol of perfection, reliability, and also expressed sincerity and respect for the other person. Punctuality is more like a character, a habit practiced for many years. Sometimes, it is an inherent quality. It cannot simply arise in one day!

2. The Respect

Well, it is certain term disappeared in today’s world. Is it not? Respect is given to people with money and power. Once they lose it, they are even not noticed. Respect for parents, friends, parents, every human being and every living being is something that is endangered now. Parents are neglected, friends are dug and partners are dumped while animals and birds are not yet considered to be compatriots living on Earth. He has no respect for life. It is a major quality which must be instilled in every child, Respect.

1. Forget and forgive

Revenge and revenge are the greatest enemies that cause problems in relationships, businesses, industries, and war between the different countries. This is the basis for the violence and destruction. The simplest solution for everything from “” Forget and forgive. “‘. Have you seen children fighting and then play together the very next minute? It is sweet, isn’t it? Some do not and they are the ones who grow up in these revenge and vengeance seeking beasts! The world can be converted into a place full of love, peace and happiness, if each child is planted with the idea of forgiving in their minds at a very young age. Why imagine the existence of heaven, if it can be created on Earth, by the mere fact of forgiveness? I wish we had a time machine…

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